Wherefrom this topic? Okay, let's dive right in.
Allowing God to make a man or a woman out of this person will save you. Some may agree, others may disagree because, honestly, many people say they have a personal relationship with God, but that is far from the truth. Discerning a Godly man or woman these days is difficult to decipher because there are a lot of counterfeits
However, I believe that it is possible to discern their authenticity if you allow God.
The topic in this blog, in summary, is saying that before you decide to choose a man or a woman to do life with, you make sure they have God in them. You make sure they each know their role. Each partner ought to concentrate on their part; the problem comes in when for example, a man demands submission, yet the man can't even love the wife as God has commanded
We tend to concentrate on what the other partner is or is not doing instead of focusing on what we ought to do. You must allow God to do all the work or most of it before you say I do; that’s the only way you can withstand the storms when they come. Your goal in marriage is not to change anyone.
Make today's blog interactive. Do you agree with the above or not? What other nuggets can you add to this topic?
I am particularly passionate about marriage and relationships because of the scars I bear, enjoy this outpouring and be a blessing to this generation by sharing The Blogs. They are purely based on lessons learnt. Shalom
Adobea (Imani)
People are going through alot in marriages because of decisions they made but when life realities hit u herrrr then u know what time it
In as much as we seek fr d face of God I also think one has to be mature emotionally, physically, psychological etc.choosing a life partner is no joke.its a life time decision n when not careful it can make or unmake u.
I sometimes thing situations makes people change.most at times things one is told at counselling is not d reality of what one experience.
Answering the question on communication
Unfortunately, there is a category of people called narcissists, they do not communicate when there is a problem; they feel they are losing control. They do that as a form of punishment or in trying to prove a point. It's called Ghosting.
They do that to torture you emotionally.
You do not want to be with a narcissist. The best Reward you can give yourself when dealing with such a person is to give them the same silent treatment. you will begin to have your freedom and liberation. A lot of people are in. Narcissistic relationships and are not even aware, that why you need discernment to choose well.
Communication is everything my friend.